What is the one way that sex has changed over the last 20 years that has surprised you? I’m surprised by how much less sex people have these days. I started to write an advice column 30 years ago as a joke — because wouldn’t it be hilarious if a gay man gave sex advice to straight people? I love being a human animal because we’re the freakiest. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.