Which means some residual/leftover lube is gonna work its way down and out over the next twelve hours or so. But if you’re noticing discharge even on days when your girlfriend hasn’t been plowing your ass, that could be a sign of a sexually transmitted infection, WETASS, and you’re gonna need to talk to a doctor about that. I’m a cis woman in my mid-30s in an open relationship with my long-term partner, who is a trans man. Within our open relationship, our rule has been to always use condoms when having sex with people with penises. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.