In most cases, it was with a teenager rather than a pre-pubescent child. Maybe this is pedantic, but it irks me when pedophilia is used in reference to rapey adults who are still rapey but didn’t rape pre-pubescent children. But be prepared: No one likes the guy who insists on accurate terminology when the topic is child rape. And if you push too hard, PEDO, people are going to start wondering why you care so much. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.