A: By remembering that jealousy isn’t a character failing — so long as it’s not being weaponized to control and/or terrorize, jealousy is a normal human emotion. Sometimes we can work through feelings of jealousy on our own, but at other times we need our partners to reassure us. Q: Sharing sex toys — yay or nay? A: Sex toys are expensive, landfills are overcrowded, and quality silicone sex toys can be dunked in a pot of boiling hot water or run through a dishwasher and sterilized. Email your question for the column to [email protected] or record your question for the Savage Lovecast at savage.love/askdan.