Toby Greybear, a ninth grade student of Carly Hosford-Israel at Poplar High School in Poplar, Mont., read and responded to the online YES! Magazine article, “’They’ and the Emotional Weight of Words.” In this article, Cole, founder of the Brown Boi Project, welcomes the expanding list of gender pronouns. The Thoughts and Struggle of a Two-SpiritDear Cole,I have never felt more alone in the world than when I was thirteen years old and questioning my gender. Finally, at thirteen years old, I questioned how I felt about gender. I already knew my sexuality—I was pansexual, and I accepted it—but I questioned how I felt about pronouns.