To wear a cape because you like it is innocent pleasure; to wear a cape despite knowing others do not is an act of bravery. Bob and Saoirse came home for supper. I thought the sunhat was okay, but then the kids told me that was weird, too, so I took it off.”My heart broke. I can encourage and cheer her on, but I cannot choose for her that she will stay this way. To wear a cape and sunhat with a feather and a silk scarf because you like it is innocent pleasure.