Holding these identities scattered across the spectrum of privilege, I have done my best to find my place in the movement, while educating myself on social justice issues to the best of my ability. But after witnessing countless people be ruthlessly torn apart in community for their mistakes and missteps, I started to fear my own comrades. On social media, I’ve stopped commenting with thoughtful push back on popular social justice positions for fear of being called out. Furthermore, most social justice 101 articles I see online are prescriptive checklists. Black social justice facilitator and doula adrienne maree brown writes of her oppressors, “What if what’s needed isn’t sexy, intimidating or violent?