A sudden flurry of texts and DMs from friends – sending love, sad emojis, and sincere condolences – arrive on my phone. It’s no secret that I love Robert Redford. But OK: I love love him. Sure, you might say it’s not ‘personal’ – it’s collective mourning for a public figure who was meaningful to many. And yet it is deeply personal, as any young woman during Beatlemania might have told you.