“I married Dalmas, a very handsome man, who gave me problems with women,” she told the crowd, prompting ripples of laughter. “He instructed two ladies from his place to watch me closely so I wouldn’t talk to any man,” she said. “I have been living with Dorothy ever since she got married to my husband — for 14 years under one roof,” she said. But his widow’s eulogy reminded mourners of the private man behind the public figure — charismatic, complicated, and deeply human. The story she told was not of a flawless leader, but of a husband whose life left both challenges and cherished memories.