DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for six years, together for eight. My husband has a kind, tender heart and knows how to bring me down to earth when I’m stressed. I love him very much, but I am becoming less attracted to him because of his lack of ambition. I’m a “chase your dreams,” “work super hard and get what you want” kind of gal, so it’s hard for me to sympathize with his lazy, careless lack of ambition. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.