Wiseman Mncube’s Wife Filled With Gratitude After Their Epic Traditional Wedding Ceremony. The multi-award winning actor and his wife Nokubonga Ngobeni had their traditional celebration called Umbondo over the weekend. In a traditional Zulu wedding, umbondo refers to the groceries and household items that the bride’s family sends to the groom’s family as a gesture of appreciation and reciprocity after the lobola has been paid. At the event, Nokubonga clothed her man Wiseman, in breathtaking traditional attire. Wiseman also seized the moment to thank his wife for dressing him.