Second, if you have been used, abused, harmed in any way, please know, God sees you, he knows you, he hears you and he loves you. I don’t know, just as I don’t understand why some people get cancer, have bad car accidents, get stuck in war zones, suffer hunger. What does help, I hope for you, if you’ve been abused, is to know that God cares for the broken-hearted. Please don’t let the evil behavior of famous Christians hurt your view of the true Jesus, the true God of the Bible. Get to know God.