Sometimes she’ll call the restaurant directly to complain, but other times she’ll try to get her credit card company to cancel her payment. Am I being unreasonable for thinking this is a problem or goes against my moral code? How should I deal with this before my child comes to think this kind of behavior is acceptable? Maybe she’s trying to get a freebie. That said, it might be a little unrealistic to expect that you can change everyone’s behavior to model good values to your kiddo.