Dear How to Do It,My husband of 20 years isn’t attracted to me because I’m not thin. I’m not obese, but I’m definitely on the thicker side. I have a beautiful face, and although he thinks I’m beautiful, he isn’t attracted to bigger women, so he isn’t attracted to my body. It hurts to be rejected by my husband when I’m an amazing woman. AdvertisementIf your husband has indicated that he doesn’t care about your sexual pleasure, consider having a firm and direct talk about that.