Dear How to Do It,My husband likes to view porn and will often make comments on women’s nudes. He would be looking at posts of women and commenting on them while sitting right next to me. He told me that he’s helping these women with their self-esteem, but these women have OnlyFans and other pay site pages on their profiles. We are going to both individual and couples counseling, and my husband was diagnosed with ADHD, which can affect impulse control. Your husband says he’s helping these women with their self-esteem.