A young woman has ignited heated conversations online after posting a viral video advising women to approach relationships with men as opportunities for personal advancement rather than just companionship. In the video, which quickly spread across X (formerly Twitter), she urged women to ensure that every relationship leaves a lasting impact on their lives. In the video, which quickly spread across X (formerly Twitter), she urged women to ensure that every relationship leaves a lasting impact on their lives. Quote “Use men as a stepping stone, use men to up-skill, use men to upgrade your life. Watch video below.. Use men to upgrade your life — Lady shares advice to her fellow women!