It’s a phenomenon that pervades every kind of relationship – men I’m involved with platonically or romantically, male relatives, total strangers. It matters that they think the music I listen to is good. When women encounter men who listen to Laufey and beabadoobee they’re shocked to find a man taking music considered feminine seriously. Haven’t we all met a guy who listens to ‘girl’ music and as a result considered him a beacon of feminism? But even so, I want him to leave thinking, “That girl had great taste in music.