QCOSTARICA – The problem is not random murder in Costa Rica, the problem is lifestyle and bad choice, ‘cruel feminism’, and ‘cursed silence’ silence by family, friends and neighbours. INSTITUTO NACIONAL DE LAS MUJERES (INAMU)PATRONATO NACIONAL DE LA INFANCIA (PANI)CONSEJO NACIONAL DE PRODUCCION CNP – OFICINA SECTORIAL DE LA MUJERRED DE MUJERES EN ACCIÓN. Lifestyle and bad choice. For many foreigners choosing to live in Costa Rica bad choices is a problem. In the Beauchamp case, his lifestyle and bad choice and a system that offered him nowhere or no one to turn to, did he and his family in.