After consultation with our rav and our daughters, I knew that it was time to buy a shidduch notebook for Daughter #2. But months passed, and there was still no need to use the gray shidduch notebook. Now, the gray notebook filled up rapidly with information on chemotherapy protocols, side effects, treatment centers, and advice from specialists and patients. Was it time to buy a new shidduch notebook for Daughter #2? As for the gray notebook?