But the rest of the world seems ready to follow the old playbook, offering tsk-tsks and lamenting yet another "failed" Hollywood marriage. In what world is a 19-year marriage a failure?" "Like, to everything, turn, turn, turn. They've reportedly been living apart for the last several months, after celebrating their 19th wedding anniversary in June of this year. That said, there's nothing wrong with being sad about the end of any relationship — even if it's not your own.