Bartender confronts creep“If you could just show me that that’s not true [by showing me] your recent messages or pictures,” she told him in the video. Why men feel comfortable taking photos of women in barsIncidents like this resonate with many women who work in bars, restaurants, or other public-facing spaces. Most women are familiar with terms like “upskirting,” which refers to taking unwanted photographs under a person’s skirt or dress without consent. Another commenter recalled her time working at Twin Peaks, a restaurant chain where staff are often subject to unwanted attention:“I worked at Twin Peaks for so long, this happened ALL THE TIME. I get it, it’s Twin Peaks, but still.