86 cities ranked best to worstIntentional self-care involves regularly taking steps to improve or maintain your physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and social well-being. The 10 Most Affordable Cities for Self-CareHers1. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma: $18.403. New York City, New York: $21.212. Honolulu, Hawaii: $31.21Most Affordable Cities for Self-Care: Full RankingHers reviewed 86 cities and ranked them from most to least affordable for self-care:1.