Asked what her message was to any young fan considering starting to play rugby after seeing the Red Roses success, an emotional Bern was adamant. "I am a big believer that sometime in the world you don't feel you fit in, but rugby is that place. No matter what might be separating you from the world, that is where you are going to be included - in rugby. Sport and rugby gave me my whole life and confidence to create the person that I am now. "Get stuck into rugby because honestly you have never had so much fun as you will have had with rugby people.