DEAR ABBY: I had my DNA analyzed and subsequently received a message from a young woman (a stranger) on the site. Her message said she did not know her father, and her mother hasn’t been clear on that subject. She believes I’m her uncle and asked if I know any male relatives who could be her father. Respond to the young woman by telling her you are giving her contact information to your brother. ***Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.