Here are ten questions that I feel, I should have asked my wife before I decide to take decision of staying together or not. We should not sugar-coat it — when you are on the receiving end, you need answers from your cheating spouse. Ask specifically what is missing in the relationship which forced the cheating spouse to take such a decision. Now this is a very difficult question to answer for a cheating spouse. In my case I had lot of triggers or incidents which leads myself to start believing that my wife is cheating me again.