His family was rich so he always had whatever he wanted when he wanted, and my family was poor so it wasn't weird to be in debt. Plus, his idea of 'lets get all these cool things you've never had' obviously really enticed me, lol. We are trying to sell many of the fun things we didn't need, dirt bikes and whatnot, to help pay off debt. After my husband's pay, and he's at $100k salary, we pay everything but $50 to bills and groceries. It feels like I'm stuck in a cycle of paying what interest is and that's it.