So without further ado, here are three simple things I did after my divorce to be truly happy. These few incidental things became almost magical during a time in my life when all of my senses were heightened by heartache. AdvertisementIf a man does these 3 things after his divorce, he’s truly happy:1. It leaps up out of a long coma to grab you by the throat and force your sad face down into that long-lost steaming pile of thrills and reflections and connections that you haven't felt for a long, long time. That makes me really, truly happy, even after my divorce, at a time like this.