When growth is happening at a person’s core level, they’re likely to underestimate it or misinterpret it entirely. You’ve Grown Less Sure, But More FlexibleEmotional certainty — or a lack thereof — is one of the most counterintuitive signs of growth. According to a 2018 study on self-regulation, growth is usually accompanied by changes in how a person’s emotional responses. This means that, instead of reacting immediately and intensely to negative emotions, they’re more willing and comfortable to explore those feelings fully before a reaction. You’ve Grown Less Obsessed With (But More Anchored In) Your GoalsUnseen growth often relates to changes in motivation.