Watch NBC6 free wherever you are WATCH HERE WATCH HEREIn videos now circulating online from previous online comments, Ray J, 45, said doctors told him he doesn't have much longer to live. Friends in the background of the video urged Ray J to not listen to doctors, telling him he would live to see his children grow up. Ray J did not immediately respond to a request for comment from NBC News. Ray J was arrested in November for allegedly pointing a gun at Princess Love. Doctors are reminding all adults, and especially younger women, to be on the lookout for symptoms of heart disease for American Heart Health Month.