I asked, “Will you be my maid of honor?” I couldn’t choose between my two best friends, so I decided to make them both my maids of honor. Kateryna Hliznitsova / PexelsAdvertisementBut then my mom said she had trouble getting a hold of my maid of honor. She promised she’d help my mom with décor for my bridal shower, but never showed up to help or called with any explanation. She was flaky whenever I tried to call or text her about my bridal shower. The last straw was when she made a big deal that her fiancé had to stay at the hotel while the bridal party went to the rehearsal dinner.