For as much as we’ve normalized female pleasure, squirting is often still met with wide eyes and whispers, coveted in some circles and stigmatized in others. But the truth is, squirting isn’t abnormal or rare, nor is it necessarily the end-all, be-all of sexual happenings. As a result, she says it’s hard to claim that every person with a vulva can learn how to squirt. As for what that liquid actually is, where it originates, and what makes it spray? Technically, “female ejaculate” consists of less than 10 milliliters of fluid (roughly two teaspoons) that looks like “watered-down milk,” Dr.