Valentine’s Day, while a secular holiday for most, originated as a Christian feast day. Emperor Claudius II forbade soldiers from marrying because it was thought that marriage would hinder their efficiency on the battlefield. Today, Valentine’s Day is often reduced to a performance—measured by reservations secured, gifts exchanged, and photos posted. Perhaps Valentine’s Day was never meant to be about what we receive, but about what we are willing to give. Under Emperor Claudius II, love was regulated, marriage was restricted, and loyalty to the state outweighed loyalty to one another.