Once whispered about, now casually discussed between skincare recommendations and “send me the link” texts, sexual wellness has officially entered the conversation with no apologies. And it's brought along with it a new wave of personal massagers that aren't trying to shock your system as much as provide gentle (yet powerful) relief. Personal massagers are now about pleasure that slips into your routine the way your best lip balm does: reliably and with a little “thank god I bought this” aftereffect. Don't forget, there’s a method to the madness: pick one that suits your current appetite (quick relief, slow build, gentle teasing, or powerful) and the rest becomes easier. Below, our picks for the best personal massagers that can easily blend in with your everyday personal items:1.