Taylor Lautner and his wife, Tay Lautner, have been together since 2018, and they're the cutest. Here's what to know about Taylor Lautner's wife, Tay Lautner. Tay is a registered nurseJust call her Tay Lautner, RN. And she has started a mental health websiteTay is also an influencer who uses her platform to advocate for mental health support. And they’re both Taylor Swift fans, of courseTay Lautner and Taylor Swift have something in common (aside from their first names); They both dated Taylor Lautner!