I married young with the intention of staying married for life. Last year, I felt ready to date again, and have been seeing a wonderful man for six months. Yet I feel torn between honoring my daughter’s need for stability and pursuing my own long-term desire for love and companionship. I know that children of divorce often feel unheard, and I am deeply committed to making sure my daughters know their feelings matter. One of the most painful points of contention between Amanda and her parents during that period had to do with therapy.