A man doesn’t stop being a man because he doesn’t “perform” vulnerability on demand. Different Languages, Same RelationshipThis is where couples get stuck because they’re speaking different emotional languages. The Way Forward (Without Surrendering Yourself)First, that comment can’t just be “gotten over.” Words like that hit identity, not just feelings. I promise I’ll come back to you.”Now silence becomes a bridge instead of a wall. And yes “I don’t have the words yet” is still communication.