For The L Word and Sex/Life actress Sarah Shahi, knowledge about her own body and about sex came later than average. Sarah Shahi attends The Walt Disney Company’s Emmy Awards Celebration at The Music Center on September 15, 2024. In her new book, Shahi is being more than blunt about sexual education. Many of these fans were women — women who’d never experienced an orgasm in their lives. Sarah Shahi attends Variety’s 2025 Power of Women at The Beverly Hills Hotel on October 29, 2025.