This is the phase that lays the foundation of the future relationship; it is what gets the girl hooked on. It is important to do things for her now and then that surprises her and makes her feel special. You may think these are small things but these small gestures never go unnoticed. Be there when she needs someone: Be her shoulder to cry on when she needs it. Make her feel special: If she is having a bad day, let her vent to you and be supportive about it.