So on the eve of my own divorce, I decided to shed a little light on the topics most couples going through a tough divorce are tired of rehashing. Most couples going through a brutal divorce are sick of rehashing these 3 things:1. Who was to blameLots of divorcing couples take great lengths to never blame the other person for what went wrong. My ex, Monica, and I are trying our hand at moving on graciously, and we've been pretty good at that. Where they'll go nextRDNE Stock project / PexelsAs you move through the divorce process, the reality starts to settle in: you're going to be single again. ), you begin to understand that you're probably going to be intimate again someday with someone new.