But somewhere along the way, fingering got lost in the kiss-to-fuck pipeline. A Case for FingeringWe should be incorporating our fingers more during sex for one simple reason: because it feels good. Whether by itself or in combination with a tongue, fingering is a great way to warm up the body for more pleasure or reach orgasm right then and there. Unlike a penis or sex toy, fingers tend to offer more control and precision, too. To really elevate your finger game, combine the fingering motion with your tongue or a sex toy on the clitoris.