Dear Eric: I’m in my early 30s and seeing a really great guy. My boyfriend and I said “I love you” to each other a few weeks ago. This isn’t my first relationship, but it’s moving more slowly than my other relationships have in the past. We’ve talked about it and he’ll say things like, “that’s definitely where we’re heading.” But that’s it. Your relationship belongs to both of you, so don’t be afraid to ask for what you want or need.