Dear Annie: I’ve always been someone who struggles between my head and my heart. Except now I’m feeling a crushing sense of unhappiness because I’m in love with someone who does not fit into my life. He’s thoughtful, too, and says some of the most devastatingly romantic things I’ve ever heard. I know he’s a bad idea. -- Hopelessly Rational in Irrational LoveDear Hopelessly Rational: Liking movies, video games and YouTube does not make a man unworthy of love.