Connie Kabarry amazed as hubby Dola throws birthday party for daughter amid mum's illness. Photo Connie Kabarry. The emotional mother disclosed that Dola planned a surprise birthday trip for their daughter without informing her of Connie’s condition, allowing the young lady to celebrate freely. Sharing a screenshot of a heartfelt message from her daughter, Connie expressed deep gratitude for her husband’s thoughtfulness and unwavering support. My husband organised our daughter’s birthday trip without telling them my condition.