“I could not count the times during the average day when something would come up that I needed to tell him,” she continues. Now, without her mother’s grounding presence, Raveena moves nervously at an online grief retreat she has organised. Instagram contentAfter guiding a short meditation, the 32-year-old checks in with the hundred attendees to ask how they feel. It’s not uncommon to read comments accusing those grieving online of performing for likes or asking them to just move on, already. In others, doors and windows are briefly opened at the moment of death to help the soul ascend peacefully.