More than three decades later, Apple TV’s The Roses proves very little has changed in the bad and ugly of divorce. It’s a fantastic film but also reality for many couples, said legal broker Shaun Muskat of Karen Shafer Attorneys. “Not because they lose reason, but because divorce becomes about money and control. “There are no winners in a divorce,” Muskat said. “The winners are the attorneys.”Avoiding a full-scale War of the Roses requires restraint early on.