Every time they open their garage door, we get blasted with the stench. We can’t open our windows, sit on our deck or do yardwork until their garage door comes down. I don’t know how they stand it. I don’t know what your husband’s problem is — whether he has trouble getting along with his co-workers or attention deficit disorder — but things won’t improve until you determine the cause. Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips.