Dear Eric: I’m in my early 30s and seeing a really great guy. If he feels you’re heading toward a committed relationship, it’s fair to ask questions like, how long is this road to a relationship? Your relationship belongs to both of you, so don’t be afraid to ask for what you want or need. Your first question was “what is wrong with me?” Although I don’t know you, I know that you’re not alone in feeling this way. Unfortunately, it’s not an easy fix, but by reaching out and processing what you’re feeling, you can experience a change.