Here are some of the things I did as a '90s mom that everyone just accepted as standard practice. AdvertisementHere are the 10 mistakes I made as a ’90s mom that everyone just treated as normal back then:1. I’m proud of how long I’ve been able to nurse, but I would have been a happier mom with a little less all-or-nothing pressure. Overthinking every sleep decisionOne month, I was kicking myself for being callous and letting my baby cry herself to sleep. Every sleep decision feels loaded because parental stress and infant sleep issues feed into each other in a frustrating cycle.