Rossi proposed to Smiley in 2013, and their engagement was documented in season 8 of the show. Katie Ginella; Gretchen Rossi; Tamra Judge. Rossi and Judge vehemently denied the allegations, and the women later decided to take lie detector tests. “After two seasons as a cast member on RHOC, the network has decided to move forward with season 20 without me,” she wrote at the time. “While disappointing, it’s not entirely surprising after seeing how season 19 played out.”“I’m incredibly grateful for the love and support I received — it was seen, felt and deeply appreciated.