Residents in smaller states are more worried about ghosting due to the limited dating pool. With dating apps becoming a major part of how people look for love, ghosting has increased significantly. If you're seeing someone and feel like it's not going anywhere, there are ways to handle the situation without ghosting. According to one-on-one coach, Michelle Wolf, instead of just disappearing, try one of these:I've loved getting to know you but I don't feel a connection. Recognize that you don’t need to know the reason why ghosting happened to be able to move on.